Home Buying, Goals, & Contentment

What?!  This blog is suppose to be about a crazy family of 6 living in a remodeled RV. Homebuying??

Well since we moved to Florida 2 months ago, there have been all sorts of changes.

  • I started drinking coffee regularly again.
  • We sold our rental property in SD.
  • All families stopped the debt-payoff.
  • Got our Pepper fixed.
  • Bought a motorcycle.
  • I joined a CrossFit
  • I injured my back.
  • Treated the kids for Scabies. (guh ross)
  • Made a few new friends.
  • Dealt with sucky Internet.
  • Scoured the local market for a home.
  • Budgeted.
  • Stopped scouring the local market for a home.

I’d guess I’m about 20 posts behind, durn it anyway.

I’ll deal with the debt-payoff soon, but first I want to explain the home buying detour we went on.

Are We Done Living in the RV?

No we are not.

After the excitement from traveling down here had passed, I started to dream of having a normal home.

You see we’re stationary.  We’d love to travel but we’re not because of Mark’s work.

How is Living in the RV Going?

I’ll just be honest and say that some things are annoying in the RV, especially when you have the fun of travel missing from the equation.

Annoying things, like doing laundry at the laundry mat, 1 foot of countertop for meal prep, no WIFI, shoddy internet cell service, AC that can’t keep up with Florida heat, and limited space.

So We Started Looking at Houses.

Since we’ll probably be here for a while, travel is out of the question at this time (except for little weekend trips).  Why not buy a house and put down some roots?  Right??

That’s how we reasoned, so we started to look at houses.  Initially, we wanted something small so we looked at a house with 1000 square feet.  Small right?  We wanted to have a small house to keep us from filling it with stuff and to pay the house off quickly.  The house was so cute but the space wasn’t functional.  I really think we could do a 1000 square foot house, I do.  BUT it has to be a smart 1000 square foot house.  This house was cute but dumb.

Mark and I reminded each other over and over, we weren’t in a hurry.  We’d wait for the right home.

But I started dreaming about washing dishes in a dishwasher again, baking in an electrical oven, and taking a bath.

My thoughts progressed to having a huge kitchen with an island and breakfast bar, double oven, swimming pool, it got crazy fast folks!

We *almost* jumped off the cliff into full-blown house hunting mode.


Goals & Budgets

But thank God for goals and budgets!  Seriously.

We sat down and crunched numbers and realized that if we bought a house now, we’d be paying for this camper for the next 5 years and we’d be house-poor until the camper was paid off.  Or we’d have to sell the camper and neither of us want to sell our *baby*.

Since we’re connected to our camper by some invisible umbilical cord, we’re not selling.  And the fastest way to own our *baby* is to live as we are and NOT buy a house.  To live simple, frugal lives in the camper.

We are sticking it out.  Strike that, we are embracing our living conditions.

Necessities vs Wants

We had to ask ourselves, what is really a necessity?  I’m not talking about being obsessed with money or hoarding it, but really, what IS a necessity?

Is there some area that you are wasting money in or that you can cut back on for a time?  For us, we are cutting back on our eating out and my grocery money (which is entirely too high anyway).

People live simple, frugal lives all the time.  Generally, we don’t want to pay the short term price for the long term benefits.

I was struck by a couple here at this campground. A married couple and large dog lived in a tent for a month.  They really did!  At night we’d see them setting out the large dog kennel and hunkering down.  I think they went to work during the day and we never got to personally meet them, but can you believe they lived in a tent for a month???  I couldn’t, but sure enough, they did it.

I’m not about to subject myself to that, but I really think we believe we have more needs than we really do.

As we look at what we need, we’re challenged to do without many of those wants we grew comfortable with.  We’re not doing this for bragging rights or to display our willpower.  But we are doing this camper-living to help us reach our goal.  Our goals are really summed up into 2.

  1. Be completely debt-free.
  2. Be free to travel if the opportunity presents itself.

I’ve cancelled the Realtor, the house hunt is over.  For now.

Goals can change.  And they do.  Who knows, in a year (hopefully less) when we are debt free, we may decide we are going to plant ourselves in Florida but we’re not quite ready to commit to that.


So after coming to terms with plan for a few days, I was on a bike ride and overwhelmed by the realization that I’d actually reached contentment with being stationary in the camper.  I am!

For once, I’m not dreaming of buying a house or angry that my 1 foot of countertop isn’t large enough for prepping meals for 6 people.  (but I still like Pinterest inspiration for that home-owning day if it ever comes)

The irritants in life come and go.  But once you commit to doing something and don’t turn back, it makes the road less painful and even, dare I say, comfortable.  Then comes contentment.

Sweet times,







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